As women, many of us feel a natural obligation to be perfect in all ways. While not many of us would enjoy being a “Stepford wife”, we can still use certain techniques in order to appear to be the perfect woman. Cooking, cleaning, a nice body and pretty appearance are all qualities of a perfect woman. However, a woman with more insight will also pay attention to her behavior and personality.
You've surely heard the old saying, “the way to a man's heart is through his stomach”. While you may view this as old fashioned, the proverb has not lost its truth. Because bachelors are typically accustomed to eating restaurant or boxed foods, they desperately long for a home cooked meal with all the trimmings. This means no skimping, or going on health-food crazes. Few things will disappoint a man more then seeing a once plentiful plate sparsely decorated with celery and low-fat dressing.
Another problem bachelors face every day is their typically untidy living conditions. Let's face it, men are well-known for their messy and unkempt habits. That's why the perfect woman would be willing to pick up after him. Smelly clothing and un-vacuumed floors are less than attractive to men, and resolving these issues will surely be a great way to make him happy.
A nice appearance is another quality of this woman. Most men aren't keen on a flabby and untoned body. Even if you are on the plump side, a short muscle toning workout at the gym will add definition and shape to your body. Remember too, the perfect woman would never, ever, be seen with unshaven legs.
While many women complain that their men don't notice details like hair, skin, and nails, nothing could be further from the truth. If you've had the same hair style for some time now, your man might have grown tired of it. Why not get a new style, and renew the spark between you two?
Looking at the deeper aspects of the perfect woman, you'll want to examine some of your personality traits. One characteristic of the perfect woman men especially enjoy is nurturing. Not to the extent of annoyance or smothering the poor guy. Consideration for his comfort is always appreciated. Getting him his slippers and paper in the morning, delivered with a smile and a fresh cup of coffee, or cooking his favorite dish, goes a long way, with many points in the “perfect woman” department.
Interception is also an important personality trait of the perfect woman. Often times men rush headlong into a situation that they know will get them in trouble. That's why women are there to intercept. When a man wants to be brash, or act out impulsively, the perfect woman is there to set him straight.
Come to think of it, patience may be the most important characteristic in attaining the title of the perfect woman.
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